How To Deal With Difficult People

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We have all met people who are so prickly and difficult to deal with. This entry goes to my ex-boyfriend.

So, it's been 2 months since I broke up with my ex. I have moved on and he's still have this high hope for us getting back together. My brother told me, the stage of acceptance is quite slow for men to accomplish. As a lady, I can't really tell to what extent his theory can be applied in one's life.  

As far as I can recall, I made it clear to him that we're done. I don't know which part that he doesn't understand with that phrase and think that he still can go to mi casa and act like we are still together? I'm beyond words to describe how I feel about this. He keeps on bothering me, indirectly and it is so annoying. I'm trying to be nice to not to fight back with violence because I know aggressiveness won't solve my problem anyway. But, even the nicest people have limit and they will get tired eventually. Maybe I should use different approach to make him stop from bugging me. ugh!

He really gets under my skin, bothering my life, but this time, not with annoying cheesy text messages and thousand missed calls. He has stepped up his game by using my family, friends and my hometown community. He even bought new car to impress me, but lemme tell you something EX-boyfriend, it's just a little too late for you to create different personality, to become someone that I used to wish for you to become.

The best thing that I can do now is to be ignorant. There's a saying, IGNORANCE IS BLISS. Indeed. Gotta live with this saying. You were someone to me, but now let's make it clear you are just a history. Every person we come across in our lives will teach us life lessons, with or without us knowing it. I have no regrets knowing you in my life because I know, we met for many reasons. The good ones, shall I keep them. I hope you will meet someone new who will love and cherish you, better than I did. I wish nothing but the best, for you.

Okay.



"aggressiveness won't solve any, patience I ain't got plenty, exertion should take place when one's ready"






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